Should I Have Sex During Divorce?
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I’m going through a divorce and my soon-to-be ex keeps asking me for sex. I am considering it (even though he doesn’t know that right now) just because I love having sex with him and I’m not going to be with anybody else until we’re officially divorced in a couple months. Once we’re divorced, I’ll move on, but during the divorce if I want to and he wants to, it seems okay, right. Just want some opinions on whether I should or not and why?
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Well he is your husband! You have every right to have sex with your husband and your husband have every right to have sex with his wife. It’s better him then any one else! You don’t want to commit adultery.
go ahead. you might turn out pregnant and having to take care of a baby on your own though.
wtf lol. i need you to talk to some girls for me so i can get some
Y’all are divorcing for a reason…right? so why would you
want to have sex with him now…
Its legal but not advised because it’ll be more difficult to make the emotional split. Are you guys sure you want a divorce?
Well I guess its okay. It might be hard to stop afterwards though. One of you may find someone else before the other and rejection then would hurt.
Nah
B/c you might end up staying b/c the sex is good
I’ve seen it happen
Don’t do it…b/c he’ll also throw it in your face too ex: "That’s not what you said last night"
my old dance teacher despised her husband…she married her very first bf only b/c she had gotten pregnant…now they’re going through a divorce and she moved out w/ their son…BUT she got pregnant w/ another child…and she’s not happy about it…
honestly, WHY would you want to have sex when you two are DIVORVING???
it just seems really odd to me. the point of a divorce is to be over with each other
then why make love??
i see no reason why you are considering it.
but if you really want to, no one can stop you
just think twice before you do…
I don’t think it’s a good idea. If you were the one who wanted the divorce he might be wanting to use sex to try and keep you with him.
Please don’t do that. Right now, you are going through some serious changes. Divorce is a huge deal… sometimes when you are in the middle of it, you don’t see it. You need this time to re-group and figure out who you are going to be as a newly single person. Continuing a physical relationship with your soon to be ex will only make this more difficult. And honestly, if ya’ll are still attracted to each other, do you really want a divorce? I’m not saying that physical attraction is everything, but when I got divorced, I didn’t even want to be in the same state let alone the same bed. Good Luck
It sounds like a bad idea to me. Especially if there are any feeling still involved on your part. It could make the divorce that much harder on you emotionally.
What the……? For some reason you are divorcing your husband. Do not go and sleep with him- unless you are reconsidering not divorcing him.
don’t do it. if you have sex with him he will think you may not want to go through with the divorce. you can have sex with me if you want
why u still do that!if u get pregnant that would be a big mistake!think first before doing something
You are luckey and can renew the wed-lock once more .
The fact that you guys are in the middle of a divorce and he is still asking for sex pretty much shows how seriously he really doesn’t take you and shows how little respect he has for you. You are getting a divorce this can be a very confusing and lonely time for you. My advice would be not to have sex with him. If you do you will most likely just add more stress and confusion to your life. At this moment in your life focus on yourself and getting rid of all the extra baggage that comes with a divorce. You are divorcing him for a reason, remember what that reason is.
No, you definitely shouldn’t have sex during a divorce. Sex is a part of marriage you should enjoy and since your marriage is over, your sex life with him should be over too.
no-it will hurt u emotionally-its like u can never have someone that good again n will compare him to others–.i slept with my ex 4 years later cause in that 4 years i didnt have anyone that big etcccc than him-it put us back into a weird relationship that led to gettin back together n him throwing the other guys in my face
well whether you should not and why is for the simple reason that you are going thru a divorce …
if you think is right then only you know why, I wouldn’t do it …
If the divorce is going to go through, then I wouldn’t. Why would you stop even after the divorce is final? If the reason you give yourself is that it’s fun to have sex with him, then that’s the reason you’ll give yourself to have sex with him again no matter whether you are divorced or not.
I remember hearing – if you can still go to bed with him, then it’s not over! You might want to think about that. Do you still have feelings for each other? This is the time to find those answers. Not after the divorce
Good luck whatever you decide
Laurie.
I don’t understand why you would want to. When you two got married you became one and now that you guys are going thru a divorce, you guys are "splitting up" with each other. Having sex also makes you one with a person physically and emotionally so wouldn’t having sex with your soon-to-be ex be defeating the purpose of the divorce/breaking away??
Your Yahoo Answers name is "carpediem"…don’t seize this one.
You are still legally married. It is okay as long as you both know it is not some kind of " lets get back together" deal, just sex.
Pity sex has no point. And that is what this will turn out to be. You’re getting divorced for some reason. Don’t try to justify sex. He knows you’re thinking about it, why do you think he keeps bringing it up? If you give in now, you’ll give in after the papers are signed.
are you sure you want a divorce?
you should not be having sex. Find a male friend if you need someone for a brief period, but not your future ex.
I would talk to a counselor about this one. There are so many variables here that you could never (and should never) explain to all of us.
Good luck.
Go to the bar in another town find the hottest guy there. If you want sex you can get it. Who cares what HE wants.He cant get any so you are the easiest he can get .
Have sex with him during a divorce? Heck, I’m a guy, and we love it, but if I was going through a divorce I would not have sex with that person. Nor anyone else. I’m having a divorce for a reason, but we’re still married at the time being. Either have sex with him, and convince him to truly turn it around if you really don’t want to have a divorce. Or don’t want to be in a relationship then decline and say:
"What the ____ (depends on the intensity level you want to use)!? We’re having a divorce for a reason! Sex is for love, and I don’t love you, you don’t love me, or we don’t love each other (pick whichever applies). If I want to have sex it will be with someone else (but really don’t till the end of the divorce) or I’ll do it myself… (you know what I mean…). But do NOT try and convince me to have sex with you just because you like the feeling! If you want me to have sex with you, then you must love me. And if you love me, why are we going through the divorce?"
Now, either way this catches him in a snare. Either he realizes he loves you and wants to stay with you, or feels like a complete idiot and sex-maniac.
But I’ve found this… Work as hard as you can to not have a divorce… So many people think it will help them and make them stronger… But honestly running away from your problems never makes you stronger. All it does is hurt you inside and make you fall apart. You don’t give a kid your lunch money, then he keeps making it miserable for you. You stand up and fight back, no matter how tough it may be, because, in the end, you’ll be happier. Don’t run away. You can run, but you can’t hide. Fight for him, stay with him if at all possible. You both will then feel great confidence if you do stay together that you overcame such a problem together, and will only be stronger for the future
You married him because you loved him, now look for that love once again, and do something that will make you happy in the long run, not a temporary yet easy fix.
I hope for the best for you–Martin
Me and my wife are currently divorcing and what i find weird is we still care about each other, but i done things when we were married that she is taking time to forgive for, but she admits to friends she loves me and always will and she so far is acting like she is going through with the divorce, but when we go out to eat and do things (like a couple) she talks about sex and shows me pictures of herself………..she like a puzzle but i’m holdin my composure, but we did have a good sex life but thats not all I want….