My Wife Says Women Have All The Rights To Children? See Why This Woman Got Divorced Right After Her Wedding
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I met my Wife online 15 months ago. Within 2 months of talking came to live with me here in Massachusetts. She is originally from Kentucky. She came up here with a 3 year old boy and i had a 18 month old boy that ive had soul custody of since birth. We dont have the childrens biological parents in their lives. The parents both abandonded them. Within a month of living with me, she wanted to have a child. I told her we should wait and do it the right way so the same doesnt happen to this baby. She promised me she would never take the baby out of my life so i agreed. She wanted to get married ASAP. So i agreed, but still scared. She came from living with her parents all her life. I offered her a nice home, allowed her to stay home with the children while i work 70 hours a week.She has gone crazy telling me she can leave anytime she wants with our baby. Says mothers get all the rights.Tells me i cant stop her and when she leaves she’s making me pay child support. Is this legally possible?
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You should have listened to those gut instincts. Did you ever consider the fact that maybe her child’s biological father "abandoned" the kid because she pulled the same crap on HIM??
Get an attorney NOW. If you don’t want to lose touch with this kid, then don’t ALLOW it to happen.
This is not true at all if you can show that you could be a better provider for the child and have a solid foundation then no she can’t She can’t move out of state or the country IF a child is involved..however she can move out with the child unles you seek an attorney and soon
It happens. My advice is for you to get a lawyer now.
traditionally the courts do side with the mother. You may need a lawyer on this one and stop marrying and having babies and keep yourself out of these situations.
No she is 100% wrong! Both parents have equal rights and responsibilities.
No you have every right to fight for the child. Not all mothers get the children. It depends on the situation.
Good Luck
She can’t make you pay child support until she takes you to
cort and the JUDGE says that you have to pay child support.
And if she trys to leave with your baby, then call the cops.
If she trys to leave, you have to let her.
But she can’t just leave with your child.
My wife, who said she’d never take the kids from me, filed a restraining order on me two months later and is currently attempting to limit my custody to every other weekend. I’ve been on the defensive the whole way and will eventually lose custody of my own biological children due to her manipulation of the sytem (which is set up for women to manipulate, by the way). Sounds like your wife knows she can screw you over.
In my opinion, the moment she said she could take your kids, you should beg, borrow and steal to hire a lawyer and get "immediate" custody orders on her, file a restraining order and then go for full custody. Anything other than that, and you can start getting used to not being a father like you have been and still want to be.
Everyone told me to get a lawyer ASAP and I didn’t listen ’cause I thought it was overreacting to the situation. Boy was I wrong!!!!!!
Women say one thing. They do another. Don’t lose your kids.
Most places, yes, she is right… Mothers automatically get custody of their children. What you need to do is get on the phone right now, and call a lawyer.. Tell them what is going on, and take her to court. Explain what has happened with the two other kids, that you have fully supported her, and also, get a voice recorder, and record your converstaions when she is telling you this stuff. (of course keep it a secret) that will be more evidence. You should probably call the lawyer ASAP because if she gets ahold of one first, your chances of getting custody are lower
Well, She can leave you and you will have to pay child support. You can fight her for custody, but its going to cost you alot of money and you are probable not going to win. Unless she is an unfit Mother and I mean drugs or abuses the baby.
I say, discretely discuss this with a lawyer. Do not let your wife know you are talking with a lawyer. The lawyer can help you protect your rights from the beginning. Making note of the wife’s erratic behavior might be a sign of mental illness. That could make her an unfit mother. It is not true that the mothers automatically get custody of the children. If that were true then there would be no need for custody battles. Talk to a lawyer and calmly and rationally figure out what to do. Keep your head. That will give you a ton of advantage of a crazy person when this gets to court. Heck, it might even prevent it from getting to court if things work out right.
Thats so sad. Yet, I completely agree with Cham. If you can prove that you are a good parent, and want part in your kids life, you will get a good outcome. your wife is nuts. sorry about that. but mothers don’t get all the rights. Good luck.
its wrong but legally possible. jurys do usually side with the mother however she seems to have mental issues , which may help u win. she seems unstable since she asked for a child then decided to walk away, this may change the case if u have the right evidence it may not happen that way and as wrong as it all is it is also ur mistake as well. u shouldnt have jumped into somthing that u were unstable about. that will lose u points.U should also decide whether or not u wanna fight for custody. u could win this u just need to try
seek legal advice, also you have a good case as you were a single father before you met her and you will be a single father again if she goes, also you can provide a stable life for you child and she cant so all maybe in favour of you, hoppe everything works out
You need to get a lawyer asap and get the process going before she leaves the state! She can’t leave the state with the child while the custody arrangements are being made throught the court system. Every state is different so I would get as much info on the laws in your state now! Knowledge is power, and if you can show that you can provide a more stable life your your baby then, and you know the way the system works, that will all be to your advantage. Good Luck!
You need to get a good attorney. You are working a lot of hours and you might consider dropping some of those to devote time to being able to care for your children. You have rights the same as a mother does, however the courts will usually give custody to whomever is able to provide more time to the children. It would be a strong case if you have family in the area who would be able to care for the children while you are at work. She should not be able to take your child that you had previous to your involvement and if she just "left" you can always talk to an attorney about "kidnapping". I hate to even mention that, because I’m not an advocate of getting kids involved in that sort of thing, because it causes a great deal of stress on the children and they would be in the custody of the "state" until things could be resolved (often times). Most of the time woman get custody because they are maternal and capable of devoting more time to the children and their development. When I got a divorce years ago, the courts asked my husband when was the last time he took the kids to the doctors, when was their birthdays, who was their doctor, and things that mothers usually take care of. Get yourself informed – and be prepared for strange questions you might not have considered otherwise. She should not have been able to "steal" your kids and you have rights too. At the very least you should have equal visitation or 50/50 custody… living with you one week and her the next or with you in the summers and on weekends and her the other times… it’s just whatever works out for your situation. Good luck! I think what she has done is WRONG and you need to stick up for your children. They need a father as much as they need a mother!!! Not just your money!!!!
I might also mention that in my state a man or woman cannot leave that state with the children without an order from the courts!!! Check it out!!!
She does not have all the rights. You need to talk with an attorney. Also look up Fathers are Parents too. They can give you some advice.
FUCK ALL THIS LAWYER SHIT AND LAWS, THE REAL LAW IS, THE MOTHER IS THE ONE WHO HAVE TO CARRY THIS CHILD INSIDE OF HER FOR 9 MONTHS, NOT THE MAN, THE MOTHER HAVE TO KEEP HER BODY HEALTHY, HAVE TO DRINK RIGHT, HAVE TO EAT RIGHT, HAVE TO GO TO DOCTORS APPOINTMENTS ALL THE TIME, HAVE TO GET THE DOCTORS TO FEEL ALL UP IN HER ALL THE TIME, HAVE TO DO TESTES, MOTHERS HAVE TO KEEP FROM STRESSING AND MAINLY FROM THE MAN. MOTHERS HAVE TO BE IN PAIN, HAVE TO GO THROUGH SO MUCH BODY CHANCES, SOMETIMES SOME MOTHERS DONT EVEN MAKE IT AFTER BIRTH, MOTHERS HAVE TO BREASTFEED FROM OUR BREAST TO GIVE THE BABY GREAT MILK SO THE BABY CAN EAT, THE MEN CANT DO THAT. WE ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD OR CHILDREN WHEN THE MEN WANT TO JUST UP AND LEAVE. IT IS US WHO REALLY DO HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS TO OUR KIDS THAT WE BRING INTO THIS WORLD. A MAN CANT BRING A CHILD INTO THIS WORLD AND DO THE THINGS THAT WE HAVE TO DO TO GET IT HERE AND KEEP IT HERE. MEN CAN HELP SUCH AS SEX OR DONATE SPERM, BUT DOING THE REST, THATS UP TO US. BUT TO ALL THE GOOD FATHERS OUT THERE, MORE LOVE TO YOU AND THATS GREAT THAT YOU ARE GOOD FATHERS, BUT TO THE OTHER MEN, ASKING DO WE HAVE ALL RIGHTS TO THE KIDS, HELL YES WE DO AND THATS ONLY TO GOOD MOTHERS, AND TO THE MEN THAT DONT WANNA PAY CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE YOU WANNA KNOW HOW WE SPENDING THE MONEY AND WHAT WE’RE SPENDING THE MONEY ON, READ EVERYTHING WHAT I WROTE AND YOU’LL SEE. AND ANOTHER THING, WE HAVE TO GET UP WHEN THE BABY IS CRYING, WE ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE TO TAKE THEM TO DOCTORS APPOINTMENTS, WE ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE TO FIND BABYSITTERS, AND HAVE TO WORK AND TRY TO HAVE SOME TIME TO HAVE FUN ALTOGETHER, WE ARE THE ONES WHO CHANCES THE DIAPERS, WHO GO GET THE CLOTHES, THE SHOES, HELL WE ARE THE ONES WHO DO EVERYTHING. IF IT WASNT FOR US, IT WOULDNT BE ANY GOOD KIDS, HELL IT WOULDNT BE KIDS EVER, THE WORLD WOULD STOP, WE WOULDNT HAVE NO ONE ON EARTH LEFT. PLEASE, BEFORE YOU QUESTION ABOUT WOMEN RIGHTS TO KIDS, JUST THINK ABOUT IT
AND FOR YOU, IT SEEMS LIKE YOUR ONE OF THOSE GOOD DADS AND ONE OF THE CASES THAT THE MOTHER IS WRONG IN THIS PROBLEM. IF SHE DONT HAVE A REASON TO LEAVE WITH THE KIDS LIKE IF YOUR NOT ABUSING THEM OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT, THEN SHE SHOULDNT BE TRYING TO TAKE THE KIDS, IF SHES DOING THAT TO HURT YOU, THEN YEAH SHE GOT PROBLEMS, THAT SOUND LIKE SOMEONE CLOSE I KNOW. IN THIS CASE I WOULD SAY TAKE HER TO COURT AND THE JUDGE WOULD GIVE YOU TWO 50/50 CUSTODY BECAUSE ITS NOTHING SHOWING THAT YOU ARE DOING NOTHING TO HURT THE KIDS AND THEY ARE NOT IN A BAD HOUSEHOLD, SO I KNOW FOR SURE THATS GOING TO HAPPEN, BUUUT, YOU NEED TO STILL WATCH HER, BECAUSE AFTER THE JUDGE GIVE YOU TWO 50/50, SHES GOING TO BE PISSED AND IM JUST SAYING IF I WAS YOU, I WOULD WATCH HER.
I have bipolar disorder and i am planning to file for divorce in febuary i told the father of my kids he is not taking them he thinks he is when we go to court i told the my soon to be ex that the courts will give the mother the kids not the father. He wants me to pay child support and i am on ssrdi that is not possible for me but i take decent care of the kids and i am more of a parent then he is he is a dead beat that thinks he has money and he doesn’t he has been mooching off of my disability for way to long and he is emotionally and physically abuseive to me we is also controlling of my finances and abuses me financially.
any advice ? and i am going to see a laywer in a few weeks i am sheduled for a appointment and to file legal seperation papers.
@ chicagoanjel You sound like you speakin from hurt and see its mostly because of baby mamas men don’t see they kids. my bm told me the same crap about how she get all the rights and blah blah blah, but when the child was born I did a dna test found out the kid is mine took her tale to court filed for custody and won. I had one child -that one- 80 hour paychecks my own house put him on my healthcare and becuase she was the princess of (wale) walefare and she had so many kids she didn’t know what to do, The court decided that I was more stable and gave me custody. so really it’s a combination of ignorance on dads part because we don’t know these things en masse,
@ chicagoanjel You sound like you speakin from hurt and see its mostly because of baby mamas men don’t see they kids. my bm told me the same crap about how she get all the rights and blah blah blah, but when the child was born I did a dna test found out the kid is mine took her tale to court filed for custody and won. I had one child -that one- 80 hour paychecks my own house put him on my healthcare and becuase she was the princess of (wale) walefare and she had so many kids she didn’t know what to do, The court decided that I was more stable and gave me custody. so really it’s a combination of ignorance on dads part because we don’t know these things en masse, yall felling yourselves way too much women
My Friend
Firstly, I’m sorry to hear you have problems with your ex-wife. I have had the same, maybe even worse situation, so I totally understand how you feel. I’ve read a few of the posts above and they all make sense, but I want to throw another suggestion into the melting pot. Let her go, tell her “its fine take my child, goodbye”. The reason I say this is two-fold. 1. She will be confused; her main weapon will be gone. 2. You and your child will probably be better off. No more fighting, no more hate, no more child as a weapon. I know this option seems harsh and undesirable, but you have to think of the long game. If a day comes that you ever see your child again, you can outline exactly what happened and why, show them this post? Anyway, good luck whatever you decide.